Just came across this question on reddit and tbh…i don’t know

People have always told me(including my parents) that i am very antisocial, i don’t know how to speak, i don’t smile often, i’m shy, i look very judgemental or i’m just too egotistic…so i don’t know if i’m actually someone worth hanging out with

And no i didn’t make all these things up i have heard it all my life from my parents, teachers, friends etc.

I don’t know if its just my luck or something about my looks or the way i speak but people don’t really hold back against me

So what about y’all?

  • cally [he/they]
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    12 months ago

    assuming this means hanging out with an exact clone of myself:

    we would play a game of chance to see who gets the laptop and who gets the pc, then we would play minecraft together.

    we could also play card games, chess, or some board game, although i wouldn’t really talk to the other one since there wouldn’t really be a point or anything new to learn that i couldn’t learn by just thinking (as we would be the same person).

    oh, we could also watch shows or a movie but i dont think it would feel like hanging out since we’d both just sit quietly and watch it.

    so yeah, i would hang out with myself, and i wonder how rock-paper-scissors would go

  • Angry_Autist (he/him)
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    12 months ago

    I have met a person nearly exactly like me, and they make a great friend

    So yes, I’d love to hang out with me, at least I’ll finally have someone that doesn’t keep deliberately misunderstanding my words to have an excuse to harass me

  • @[email protected]
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    32 months ago

    I would love to hangout with myself. I’m quiet, calm, and introspective IRL.

    I don’t have any friends because I’m disappointed in people my own age. I’d hang out with people 20-30 years older than me, but they’re all dead soooo…

  • 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮
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    2 months ago

    I would have an orgy with myself if I had a cloning machine.

    I would try out for RLCS with my 3-me-team in Rocket League.

    I would never wonder where my team mates are in The Finals, because now they are also me.

  • @[email protected]
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    22 months ago

    hangout

    That’s a noun. You want “hang out” with a space. It’s the difference between asking “what’s up, Chuck” and “what’s upchuck?” Supdog is the exception.

  • @[email protected]
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    12 months ago

    God no, I have a hard enough time hanging out when I’m present, I don’t need another me ruining the ambiance.

  • @[email protected]
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    62 months ago

    Probably yes, I talk to myself all the time and my sense of humour happens to be pretty similar to mine. At the very least is worth a try.

    • @[email protected]
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      22 months ago

      Agreed! We both like the same shows… never fighting about what to have for dinner… it’s great

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠
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    92 months ago

    One-on-one? Sure, I’m hilarious.

    In a group? No. I’m an attention hog, I don’t need the competition.

    • Victor
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      2 months ago

      Maybe use the opportunity to audit your behavior. Give others some room and shit. Could be a thing.

  • gon [he]
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    22 months ago

    Well, that’s a complicated question.

    On one hand, I do already hang-out with myself basically all the time. I talk to myself a lot and I’m my own wall to throw stuff at.

    On the other hand, I’m also very antisocial. I would definitely not enjoy spending this time that I spend with myself with another, physical person.

    So, that.

  • Pika
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    22 months ago

    I would hang out with myself, but I feel like it would be a very quiet meeting because we both would just be doing our own thing because unless someone else is spearheading the conversation or as a topic that I’m passionate about, I generally stick to myself anyway.

  • @[email protected]
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    12 months ago

    I’m apparently best enjoyed in small doses; nobody else really seems to enjoy my company long-term, so why would I be any different?