A commune or a cult would be better than this circus lol

  • Sombyr
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    242 years ago

    As somebody who was once part of a cult, it’s just the same circus but worse.

  • the w
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    162 years ago

    Why not a commune IN the city?

    Not saying this is you, but I feel like a lotta people who wanna live in the country also want all the city amenities - internet, garbage pickup, municipal sewage, etc.

    To me, the problem isn’t cities, it’s late stage capitalism - gentrifying neighbourhoods, driving rents beyond reach, displacing communities. Plus its zeal for car-focused infrastructure, conspicuous consumption. All that stuff.

    Anyway communal life is very appealing - I long for my college days of living in a house full of peers. Even if i’m off-base with my capitalism ruins the city argument, I think we’d all do better at coping with modern life with a wider support network.

    I hear they are growing more popular in the bay area? Gideon Lichfield, outgoing editor-in-chief at Wired, mentions he spends half his year living in a commune of sorts and would like to do it full time in this podcast.

    https://www.wired.com/story/have-a-nice-future-podcast-19/

    • @[email protected]
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      2 years ago

      I live in San Francisco. It’s not particularly “new” as the interview implies. Housing costs have been outrageous here for decades, so the degree to which apartments/housing are now unaffordable is only a reflection of the already ludicrous cost of living. Group housing is a “Bay Area thing” because it is solution to outrageous rents many cannot afford to pay alone. In some neighborhoods where it’s possible for people to go in on a share situation in one household, it works, but it’s actually becoming more difficult to find not more common, due to gentrification in tons of once affordable areas and the rise of things like VRBO and AirB&B gobbling up space which once existed on the long term market.

      • the w
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        12 years ago

        Thanks, I had no idea it had been developing this long. While Toronto area prices have been ridiculous for a while, I feel like we’re only now hitting an inflection point where we might start seeing arrangements as you describe. There’s tons of unoccupied or under occupied properties due to airbnb as well.

  • @[email protected]
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    32 years ago

    I feel pretty happy in a city where I feel welcome and the neighborhood is fun. I got my family and friends around, and my bf only lives a short drive away :)

    Nature isn’t too far away either.

  • @[email protected]
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    112 years ago

    My dad did it back when he was a hippy.
    He still talks very fondly of the time he spent out in the Arizona desert all those decades ago.

    A piece of me would like to drop out of society and live in solitude.
    While I lean towards being a loner, I realized that I am probably mostly a hybrid.
    I enjoy some human interaction, but also love being alone to do whatever the fuck I want.
    To me a commune would be too intimate and I think would end up being like a small town type of scenario which doesn’t appeal to me.

  • @[email protected]
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    22 years ago

    No I like not to have to worry about food every day and potentially die if I have some medical issue.

  • @[email protected]
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    122 years ago

    I’ve thought for a while that it would be cool to buy up a block in a suburb and do urban farming as a community.

    • autumn (she/they)
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      12 years ago

      see if there are any community gardens in your area. they’re basically what you’re talking about, although usually only the land owner and/or farm manager lives there. my favorite one around here also has a rotating volunteer position who lives on site.

      • @[email protected]
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        32 years ago

        Probably hill zones: the land is easier to work than mountains, close to the plains (where there are natural water reserves) but still high enough to have lower temperatures

        • xapr [he/him]
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          22 years ago

          Yeah, I (and I’m sure a lot of other people) had thought of that too, but now the whole North is on fire.

          • @[email protected]
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            52 years ago

            Yeah but that means it’s on a fire sale! points to temple

            In 20 years you’ll be relaxing in mild weather while Santa tried to keep the reindeer from burning alive.

            • xapr [he/him]
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              22 years ago

              Yeah but that means it’s on a fire sale! points to temple

              Haha, smart!

    • @[email protected]
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      12 years ago

      “Might” or “should”? A lot of land “might” be livable, some different land “should” be livable if you build a fallout shelter and a bio-dome.

  • @[email protected]
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    432 years ago

    Does the cult have a good plan for healthcare? If so, please send me your newsletter, manifesto, religious tract, pentabarf, whatever.

    • Milksteaks [he/him]
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      102 years ago

      I’d settle for a cult with a good dentist tbh. According to US healthcare eyes and teeth are separate from the rest of your body.

  • @[email protected]
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    192 years ago

    Already planning on it here in Canada once my friends and I have the money for what we want to do.

    Farming (+greenhousing) and some cottage rentals on the side.

    Peace out, modern society!

    • @[email protected]
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      82 years ago

      Cottage rentals for income?

      Currently my plan is to get far enough into my career that I can spend half my time in city making money and half in the woods

      • @[email protected]
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        52 years ago

        Exactly, cottage rentals for income. To supplement farming and other ventures, anyway.

        I’m lucky that my work is 99.9% remote, so as long as I can acquire a stable internet connect I can continue to work out there if needed. Existing entirely in the woods is incredibly appealing.

        • @[email protected]
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          22 years ago

          I like that idea. Continuing to make money, no matter if it’s just a few hundred dollars a month, is the main hurdle for me to leave. You’d still need to finance construction but it’s a good long term vision.

          I am worried about fire seasons/smoke seasons. At best it shortens the tourist season and at worst I lose everything : /

          • @[email protected]
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            32 years ago

            Yeah, that lack of startup capital is why I’m not doing it already. A bunch of us are saving to pool money together to self-finance. You can also just start with a couple of nice trailers (which you wouldn’t be able to charge as much for, of course) and gradually work towards full cottages. Some cottages in areas I frequent around here are just trailers and are still going for like $300 CAD a night in the middle of September.

            At least insurance should protect you against total loss?

  • Storksforlegs
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    172 years ago

    I dont know, you cant really go shopping for cults. Cults go shopping for you.

  • @[email protected]
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    172 years ago

    If you’ve ever heard of WOOFing that’s a great place to start. It’s a work trade program I did years ago, tons of farms around the world. You get room and board, just work the farm for a short term. I traveled across Canada doing that years ago and ended up staying on one for 2 years in the discovery islands off the coast of BC. One of the best times in my life. Now I live in downtown Toronto, wondering why I ever came back ahaha

          • @[email protected]
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            62 years ago

            Interesting, and indeed a dilemma. I basically mentioned it because just yesterday I saw a guy talking about “sex in the past”, and he happened to mention this, apparently in an even more idealized/outdated way.

            Basically he said that a bunch of them would go through a “bonding ritual” at the age of 14, and from then on live like a sort of communal marriage, where the woman would shoo out the husband because she had a date with some other guy of the group, and that they were the “happiest people in the world” and would act surprised at outsiders’ focus on their sexual practices.

            From the other article, it sounded more like forced marriage and women abuse… and here it sounds like most of them want to get out of there.

            Interesting series of takes.

        • @[email protected]
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          72 years ago

          god I was hoping it was like tourists show up and just get laid by natives but instead it’s just weird cuckolding.

  • @[email protected]
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    22 years ago

    If I were younger I’d be looking at Mexico. Elevation and arable land can be found. Aboriginals would have survived if not for guns. And I think it will be a long time before the US ruins them like they do all over the world. I believe you can pretty much survive with 1acre per person in the commune. At least according to Fukuoka Masanobu.