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Nakoichi [they/them] to [email protected]English •
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Pronoun discourse on twitter is making me lose my mind. CW talks of misgendering and defense thereof

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Pronoun discourse on twitter is making me lose my mind. CW talks of misgendering and defense thereof

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Nakoichi [they/them] to [email protected]English •
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https://xcancel.com/OldManNikolai/status/1813854659704246450

  • TheVelvetGentleman [he/him]
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    Or their name? Pretty easy not to misgender someone if you just use their name.

    • Xx_Aru_xX [she/her, they/them]
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      What if they have a gender neutral name, or a name in a language not yours, this is still assuming the gender based on the name

      • ikilledtheradiostar [comrade/them, love/loves]
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        No just use name instead of pronoun

        So “she’s the worst” becomes “Gary’s the worst”

        • Diuretic_Materialism [he/him]
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          That’s gonna make certain conversations in the English language unwieldily as fuck

          • ikilledtheradiostar [comrade/them, love/loves]
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            You can use other names than Gary.

            • Diuretic_Materialism [he/him]
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              Gary should become a gender neutral pronoun.

              • HexBeara [none/use name]
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                13•11 months ago

                theory-gary

          • D61 [any]
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            The key word point is “certain conversations”, not all conversations. So its probably going to be fine most of the time.

            • Diuretic_Materialism [he/him]
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              You’re probably correct that most time, you’d figure out the persons pronouns before such a conversation came up. I’m just saying it’s not a good long term solution since the English language is pretty reliant on pronouns.

              • D61 [any]
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                Fair point but it does seem we’re reliant on pronouns less out of necessity and more out of habit.

                • Diuretic_Materialism [he/him]
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                  Are their languages that don’t use pronouns at all? I’m not familiar with any, it’d make it difficult to discuss a person when you don’t know their name.

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                    …discuss a person when …

                    • Hey, you know that person we met last night?

                    • Suzie, could you go help that person standing over there by the deli counter?

                    • So do you know the name of the new cashier?

                    • I was supposed to have a group meeting with the classmate that usually sits next to me.

                    • When will the mechanic be done working on my car?

                    • I’m expecting a call from an insurance agent.

                    Seems pretty easy to me.

          • gay_king_prince_charles [she/her, he/him]
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            7•11 months ago

            Some people are really good at just using names. It’s a skill.

            • Diuretic_Materialism [he/him]
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              Damn, I’m impressed. I know I’d struggle with it.

              • ElChapoDeChapo [he/him, comrade/them]
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                Honestly I struggle with remembering names so that strategy seems too advanced for me blob-no-thoughts

                • Diuretic_Materialism [he/him]
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                  I can barely remember my own name most days

        • Xx_Aru_xX [she/her, they/them]
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          Either I didn’t read it right or the other person edited it after I commented idk

          • ikilledtheradiostar [comrade/them, love/loves]
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            13•11 months ago

            o7 happens to the best of us comrade

        • robot_dog_with_gun [they/them]
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          y’all remember names?

          • ikilledtheradiostar [comrade/them, love/loves]
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            Repetition is the key to remembering someone’s name

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      Yeah, there’s also peoples that use their name as their pronouns

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