• @[email protected]
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    4627 days ago

    Pediatric. Oncologist. That dude is an absolute hero and treasure for taking on such a horrible and bleak profession. I hate that those words are combined in existence at all. God I’m so ashamed to be an American.

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      1827 days ago

      Some people are built different. My dad worked as a pediatric hospice nurse for almost 10 years. Talk about a shitty sad job. Every single patient is a child and every single one of them is GOING to die on your watch. Fuck THAT. I do not know how he did it.

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      427 days ago

      They are just doctors. No need to glorify them. They do no more or less than a bus driver. Most jobs have an emotional toll.

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        927 days ago

        Good to know. Next time I have a medical issue, I’ll ask my bus driver for a diagnosis. What are your thoughts on subway drivers or Uber drivers?

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        1727 days ago

        Let’s agree to disagree. I respect bus drivers as much as you do. Some people, however, have a greater positive effect on humanity as a whole, and that deserves its own form of respect.

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          27 days ago

          I agree to disagree. Doctors may have a more immediate and tangible benefit on people’s health and well-being, but providing safe and reliable public transportation to untold amounts of working class people who may rely on you to provide for their families is also a massive positive effect that should not be diminished simply for being less culturally prominent.

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            627 days ago

            Its not being diminished you are diminishing doctors who save dying children after 20 years of intensive education with driving a bus

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              126 days ago

              Well, no point in arguing with someone like you. Regardless, as a practicing immunologist I don’t feel the least bit diminished by having the social utility of my work compared to other people; ESPECIALLY if it’s on the arbitrary basis of the amount of time, money, or education it took someone to become “valuable to society.” As for any of my colleagues who do feel that way: grow up; healthcare is a service, and we are service workers.

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        1427 days ago

        I’d have to imagine that the stress and emotional toll is significantly higher for a paediatric oncologist than a bus driver. There’s not so many people that could cope with that.

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        126 days ago

        Different energy. Bus driver has to deal with many potentially grumpy people in many potentially unsafe areas. Not an easy job.

        A doctor that is specifically specializing in a field where he has to get to know and take care of children as they die in a potentially painful way, has a much different challenge. Less for safety or aggressive people (though maybe parents could be I guess) but more in being the one to watch as the hope fades for each individual child in their last days.

        I wouldn’t love the bus driving job. I don’t think I could do the pediatric oncology one for more than like, one patient ever. I’d be depressed forever.

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        Having known several healthcare workers with PTSD from the pandemic I strongly disagree.

        Granted, the pandemic was traumatizing for people from all walks of life but I don’t envy hospital based nurses or doctors from that time.

        It was so painful for nurses that many quit leading to a shortage that’ll likely go on for the next decade as a result.

        Some of that is due to corporate healthcare enshittification but there was a mass exodus during the pandemic for a reason.

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        727 days ago

        Agreed, I would be equally angry if a bus driver were detained by ICE. Their immigrants status and then solidarity is more important than their profession.