• themeatbridge
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    166 days ago

    That depends entirely upon the context. There are many situations where not tipping is rude. There are also situations where tipping is rude. “Rude” is a quality related to social expectations. You can be unintentionally rude due to ignorance of the norms, and that doesn’t necessarily make you a bad person. But if you knowingly refuse to tip when tipping is expected for a provided service, then you’re a shitbag.

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        6 days ago

        If you knowingly buy chinese goods produced with slave labor you’re a shitbag and they’re a shitbag. There can be more than one shitbag in the chain.

            • @[email protected]
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              46 days ago

              don’t know why i’m getting downvoted, i was just trying to make a point. and you countered beautifully.

              • @[email protected]
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                26 days ago

                Mine was too at first. Lemmings be lemmings. It kind of acts like when reddit started doing “vote fuzzing”. I don’t pay them any mind.

                • @[email protected]
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                  16 days ago

                  nah, i know for sure i’ve pissed some people off with all my shitposting and now they just downvote all my comments lol

        • @[email protected]
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          86 days ago

          slave labor

          china

          lmao you could have said coco or diamonds or meat packing or the World Cup or gestured vaguely at the country with the highest prison population, but you had to go with the fictional example. Or do you genuinely think China has slaves driving combine harvesters (unlike Angola or a dozen other prisons where slaves pick cotton by hand)?

            • @[email protected]
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              25 days ago

              Not agreeing with american propaganda = tankie, got it.

              You must have big wrinkly brain mister.

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              I mean I don’t like tankies either but is this user wrong? it’s a little weird to use these flippant (and frankly, derogatory) stereotypes about China when there are so many examples of it around the world

              it’s 2025 and we’re in middle of a trade war with china, just recovering from “kung flu” narratives and the far right just ran on a platform of fearmongering about china to initiate a fascist takeover of the USA.

              maybe we should be mindful of how we talk about China.

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                I mean I don’t like tankies either but is this user wrong?

                Yes. Do you have reputable sources that show no chinese goods are made using Uyghur forced labor?

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        If someone is not even attempting to getting the law that allows their core income to come from tips changed that makes one complicit and therefore obligated to tip.

        If you are fine with server’s primary income coming from tips then you are obligated to tip.

      • themeatbridge
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        46 days ago

        Yes, the people refusing to pay them properly are the shitbags. The employer is a shitbag, and the customer who refuses to tip is a shitbag.