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    1911 year ago

    Good lord the replies to this are sad. Believe it or not it’s a perfectly reasonable expectation to only want to date someone whose core beliefs align with yours (and, y’know, actually respects your rights as an independent human being.)

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      61 year ago

      It’s fine to have dating preferences. The issue is when people who are just calling anyone who is conservative leaning terrible. If you don’t agree with someone’s political ideology, you should just respectfully disagree, not call them a terrible person.

      Also, calling people evil for their options is a terribly way to convince them to change, it just makes them get really defensive. If you want to convince someone to change opinion, you need to have a respectful, insightful discussion.

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        31 year ago

        What if they’re espousing, either directly or by association, terrible things? Is that not the appropriate time?

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        61 year ago

        How do you have a respectful or insightful discussion with someone uninterested in being respectful or having insight?

        How do you explain the suffering caused by separating children from parents at the border to someone who doesn’t see those people as human? To someone who thinks they deserve to suffer for existing in the wrong color of skin? At what point do you call a spade a spade?

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        211 year ago

        Well it’s a bit difficult to “respectfully disagree” when someone wants to take away my rights.

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        321 year ago

        The meme here didn’t even call anyone evil. That said, if you guys don’t want to be called evil, stop supporting evil shit.

        Conservative policies not only rob women of the rights to their own bodies, it gets them killed too. Either conservatives openly support this or they’re somehow too naive to see what the politicians they vote for are doing, and both are good reasons for women to stay the hell away from them.

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          21 year ago

          Just being conservative leaning doesn’t mean you are far right, and agree with everything the conservative party does.

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            41 year ago

            what else are they doing that you’re for? please be specific

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              71 year ago

              I’m genuinely curious what reason someone has to support them. Like genuinely. I look at Republicans and am like how the fuck can anyone that isn’t rich and in power be on that side? And then I remember the very potent tactics of fearmongering

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        191 year ago

        who are just calling anyone who is conservative leaning terrible. If you don’t agree with someone’s political ideology, you should just respectfully disagree, not call them a terrible person.

        but they are?? they advocate for oppression of any other group thats not them. why would you respect a person that wishes your disappearance???

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          11 year ago

          Being conservative learning doesn’t mean you want to oppress people. It means you want less government regulation.

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              Depends on the specific person. I totally agree that discrimination of minorities shouldn’t be allowed. You can be conservative without being racist.

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                But being racist isn’t an automatic loss of a vote for most conservatives. Sure - You can be conservative and not racist, but if you are voting for conservatives who are racist… What is the difference?

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                  11 year ago

                  What exactly is the GOP doing that is racist? Isn’t racism explicitly unconstitutional? If a candidate was racist, I wouldn’t vote for them.

                  But I haven’t seen explanations for what they do that is racist. It’s just people who are calling them racist, and saying you’re dumb if you don’t think they’re racist.

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            I hate to tell you this but that is the definition from like 30 years ago. If you look at their behavior now, they do the exact opposite (see basically any policy they’ve passed in the last 2 years)

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                31 year ago

                It’s not the numerous postal service designations that people are pissed at though. It’s the bills that are making my friends flee the state that people are rightly pissed at. Not every republican is an extremist, but the extremists have control over the party and the rest of the party seems completely fine with them at the wheel. Either it’s extreme apathy or tacit agreement.

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        121 year ago

        Conservatives aren’t evil, but they are bad cooks, and worse lovers.

        Conservatives don’t clean their own underwear, and they cheat in CS:GO.

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        21 year ago

        Conservatives are actively supporting the oppression of LGBTQ people, however, and voting for far-right politicians

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          21 year ago

          Not everyone who has some conservative opinions wants to oppress people and vote for far-right politicians.

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      351 year ago

      This is what so many of them think. If they really don’t have a problem dating someone left leaning it either means they get off on tearing down strong women or don’t really know what they believe and are still just parroting mommy and daddy’s beliefs.

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      501 year ago

      As someone with a right-wing father and a left-wing mother: for fuck’s sake date people with your same beliefs. Deep disagreement on something like that is NOT something you can build a trustful relationship upon.

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        281 year ago

        Holy shit, I can’t imagine being in such a relationship even just for a small amount of time. Having kids with someone I fundamentally disagree with is just on another level.

        I guess if you’re not into politics/news at all, it can kind of happen. 🤷

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          Admittedly, we’re not in the US so the divide is much smaller, but Jesus Christ listening to them arguing over half the stuff that came up on TV has definitely not been a pleasant experience.

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        61 year ago

        The comments under that vid are fucking hilarious. If I go any further left I’ll fall off the universe, but I also live a self-reliant life in the forest where I chop my own wood, fetch my water from a creek, run and maintain solar installations, and treat my wife like the wonderful human she is. All while being the traditional provider and ‘manly’ man. My truck is big, because it needs to be when you are building a house and homestead with your own hands.

        And all these parking lot cowboys in their spotless lifted trucks think that these values are ‘theirs’. Get fucked losers.

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      191 year ago

      There are a lot of trad women looking for these dudes, it’s just that these dudes are often… rather undesirable for other reasons

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      571 year ago

      “in looking for a woman who will respect my core beliefs as an independent human being, which include not treating her like an independent human being”