Never thought I’d say the sentence “Well there’s a Sankey chart I’ll never be able to unsee,” but here I am saying it because this is hell and and of course we have libertarian sexworker data scientists and really sad Johns doing really sad exit interviews.
Bit judgey. We hate her because she is a tech bro. She is a worker just like us
Anyone who combines sex with Sankey diagrams is definity not just like us
She is neurodivergent, she is a poster, she spends an unhealthy amount of time with terrible nerds. She is more like is than we cares to admit
Yeah and she and hers haven’t exactly been exemplars of consent. It’s not the sex work that’s dunkable, it’s the fact that her quirky sex nerd shtick is wallpapering over some terrible behavior. You do not, in fact, have to hand it to her.
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Slightly afraid to ask, but what is a fluffer?
A person who is hired to keep dudes hard at porno shoots.
Gotcha. The fact that there were multiple fluffers at this event makes everything even more bizarre
The blog post she wrote about it also opens with a Nelson Mandela quote.
17 came in Aella
20 either came in a fluffer or didn’t cum at all
another 19 signed up, interviewed, got tickets, and did not show or did not do the whole purpose of the event
This girl got ratio’d by a fluffer
I glanced through the article she posted. She had 5 fluffers and additional people holding her down (she has a non consensual kink). I think overall the ratio of participants in the orgy and “staff” at the orgy were 1:1.
Honestly I could see myself being the guy with the clipboard.
It would be such an offbeat thing to do, since staff were actually paid.
“Oh yeah I was paid $50/hr to observe an orgy and note orgasms without participating or interfering in any way” would be a great conversation starter
“I keep track of all sorts of things on data sheets. Restaurant menu items, agricultural production, housing markets, calls from stolen phones. Once I even kept track of outcomes at an orgy!”
Nah you sneak that in the middle, make them point it out
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Gals rock
I feel bad kinkshaming this person even if they are a massive weirdo otherwise
Having a kink isn’t bad, nor is it bad to be a weirdo. Being a bad person is bad, and that’s what this person should be shamed for.
That’s what I mean
But you wrote “even if they are a massive weirdo otherwise” which I took to mean that you thought being a weirdo is something you should be shamed for
I meant weirdo as in EA/grifter/etc
That makes much more sense!
oh to be an orgy cum stenographer
I started reading about her and she’s does porn but only has sex ~60 times a year? (In 2022). Idk if I’m weird but that seems really low? Like, if you’re that hot and it’s your job wouldn’t you fuck more?
Aella stated that she had showered only 37 times in the entire year, which averages to one shower every ten days, in order not to disturb her “natural skin microbiome”.
It’s once a week, that’s “Married couple who plan out their sex” levels. That’s extremely low for a porn star who is also in a committed relationship.
I think even the railyard bull needs a rest after the station handles that many trains
Toot toot!
What’s more surprising is only “Going Outside” 220 times a year. I’m a bit of a shut-in but 250 times a year would be rather low even for me.
Important context
Begging my fellow men to have some standards Jesus Christ.
1600 people wanted to have sex with someone who hasn’t showed in a month and averages one shower every 11 days? Fucking hell.
“A shower once every 11 days is rookie numbers. Besides, no need to shower when you only go to a workplace that has a smell you’ve been desensitized to.” - Me, who works in a factory anywhere from 5-7 days a week from week to week.
No, don’t ask me what my longest stretch without a shower is, you don’t want to know.
I know this is not at all a popular opinion, and I’m reluctant to say it even here on hexbear. But daily showering really is overrated. It can also be bad for your skin microbiome, especially if you use soap with antibacterial properties.
Also hair that goes unwashed for good lengths of time will always be healthier hair than frequently-washed hair, even if it’s with the most expensive bourgsie ass shit shampoo at the salon. Just as an example, you know all those shampoo ads for dealing with split ends? Yeah, just don’t use the shampoo/conditioner at all, letting your natural hair oils build up, conditioning your hair and your “split ends” will be gone or at least markedly better than they would be with any overpriced garbage hair product that promises to cure them.
There is an in between showering daily and showering once a week, and even an in between showering daily with soap or shampoo and showering daily with soap or shampoo on and off.
I have bad news about how often those men probably shower.
She’s hot.
Is that your deduction or does she post images of herself?
Yeah she posts them. Obviously her “hotness” is a matter of personal taste, but it’s not surprise that a lot of men were eager to bust in a conventionally attractive woman.
It’s misleading, she swims regularly.
I tend to wash off the chlorine after swimming, I guess she just let’s it absorb through her skin?
that makes it even worse, pools are filthy
It appears fairly well maintained. As to how much more chlorine you’d have to add to a domestic swimming pool to make it sterile, I guess that’s what the extra money is going into.
You’re supposed to shower before you swim at literally every pool
Yeah idk how much chlorine she adds but her house has one and it doesn’t appear to be filled with algae
Oh that explains a lot actually.
I KNEW I REMEMBERED THAT TWITTER HANDLE FROM SOMETHING
Holy shit. I can’t figure out which would be worse; her not showering days before the gangbang or days after it.
damn why does she gotta be racist, that’s awesome
me irl
Listen here number cruncher
reading this made me want to press the self eject button
Alas she is very pro-“israel”
wait what the person who posted this banger tweet would be zionist?
imagine my shock
(cw ableism)
jeez that sucks
Shinigami eyes flags the account red. Who even is this person
One of those rich, fake job having pseudo intellectual who sit around pondering about life inside their mansion/luxury condo
-famous sex worker, took some goofy gnome pics like a decade ago, posted about doing acid, is part of the Effective Altruist cult
I hate that the gnome pics are what I recognize her from.
Oh, the Gnome lady. Did she do a Mime thing too?
Effective Altruism
It’s like they correctly realized capitalism is a death cult and propagating global suffering, but instead of seeing if anyone else has ever worked out alternatives before them (
) they came up with the brilliant idea to…pick the right careers and make donations? Without any actual material analysis of why things around the world are the way they are. Also apparently they have an algorithm that they say can predict world events or something.
What an amazing prediction, no one else could have possibly seen that one coming, I’m sure.
Apparently a bunch of techbros like Sam Bankman-Fried were heavily involved so that’s how you know it’s a joke ideology.
Yeah, there’s the seed of a sensible idea in there, which is just “if you’re going to try to improve the world, you should think carefully about where and how to spend your limited resources to have the most impact.” That’s fine–good, even–but these ghouls have used that idea and their own ideological preconceptions to bootstrap themselves into some absolutely insane positions.
A big part of the problem is that they extend their utility calculations indefinitely into the future with no temporal discounting whatsoever. That leads to a hyperfixation on “existential risks” and trying to optimize for lives 100,000 years in the future at the expense of lives today. Their “leading philosophers” say unhinged things about this: one of them claims that delaying the technological singularity is “costing” us something like 250 billion lives per second, since in the future when we’re an intergalactic civilization with 500 trillion people, that’s how many people will die every second before we have post-Star Trek levels of technology. Somehow this is taken by actual thinking human beings to be a compelling argument instead of a reductio ad absurdum of the position.
The lack of any temporal discounting means that they see things that actually matter–like climate change, a lack of healthcare, or the ravages of global capitalism–as fundamentally unimportant. After all, if you can save 30 trillion lives in the year 45,000, who cares if a few billion die in the year 2060? The eventual impact of this is that most of them have talked themselves into thinking that AI “alignment” is the place they should all be focusing all their resources, since Robot God will either save us all from death forever or usher in human extinction, and thus its future utility numbers are either infinitely positive or infinitely negative. Therefore, they all insist that anyone not giving all their money and time to science fiction AI grifts like MIRI is fundamentally irrational and that trying to help actual people who are actually suffering right now is dumb, short sighted, and based in emotion (pejorative) instead of reason.
They’re fucking infuriating grifters.
There is a certain logic to the original ideas of effective altruism. If you want to make positive change in the world, you will be more able to do so if you are a powerful person.
The problem is you can essentially use it as a justification for endlessly pursuing your own personal power. After all the more powerful you become, the more good you can do! In fact it makes it easy to justify committing immoral acts in the pursuit of power-- think of it from a utilitarian point of view! I am going to do so much good once I’m rich, that it will far out weight the harm I’m doing now. In other words, an okay idea that is used and abused by the greedy and power hungry to convince themselves they aren’t bad people.
yeah like some charities are more effective than others, and if you’re already an engles maybe it’s some kind of better to find some billable hours and pay people to “volunteer” at the soup kitchen rather than do it directly yourself but those guys all went fucking nuts about pascal’s wager instead.
pick the right careers and make donations
On first blush, there’s a certain amount of logic to this, but then the EA people all “realized that AI is the most dangerous thing ever” and started giving all of their money to each other’s AI startups, so whatever it started as it ended up being a techbro grift.
It’s just utilitarianism with the serial number filed off and happiness demons being real life demons
What does that first sentence even mean?
https://shinigami-eyes.github.io/
It flags transphobes red and trans allies green. Works with reddit, twitter, wikipedia, and I’m sure other social media, idk i don’t really use them much.
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Does it say what threw the flag. I’m certainly not seeing anything in the history.
idk what comment someone flagged but there’s plenty of sus ones
I wonder if in the next few decades we’ll see an uptick in homeschooling as a reaction to wokeness infecting the schools
https://twitter.com/Aella_Girl/status/1362635548477726721
ive been doin lots of reading bout native american tribes and theres so many stories like “and then they slowly roasted a 6 year old girl to death” or “then they sliced the bottoms off his feet and made him walk over coals” that im like idk mebbe colonialism was an improvement?
https://twitter.com/Aella_Girl/status/1707623419666469309
Not knowing too much about the middle east, I was like “idk there’s rarely good guys and bad guys, I’m sure it’s complicated, media can be biased, I reserve my opinion till I know more” But the more I learn the more I’m like ok Israel seems clearly more good here
https://twitter.com/Aella_Girl/status/1716709798945685512
Yeah she’s a clown.
Woof
that second and third tweet are related. as a Rationalist, she’s not (just) being duped by propaganda. she’s knowingly and willingly supporting a project of racist settler colonialism because she thinks it is right that the greater races should dominate the lesser races.
That’s very cool. Does it work on Hexbear?
Making it work on Hexbear might be dangerous. Transphobes would literally start getting Death Noted. Wait actually….
if you seen anyone transphobic on hexbear, report them to the mods, they aren’t welcome here
Shinigami Mods
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Not yet it seems, can’t imagine it would be very hard to get working with lemmy though.
browser extension to check if someone is transphobic
Neat!
15 didn’t cum?!
I mean
Oh…
I know gangbangs aren’t nearly as spontaneous most of the time as they’re made out to be, but this is just…Dickensian. It’s like going to the workers bunkhouses and going “I need a dozen stout laborers to bang my colonialist wife, please don your boots and arrange yourselves in order of turgidity.”
Yeah it sounds like the most unsexy possible way of doing this, which is super on-brand for that crowd.
finally, orgies on the blockchain
This is just kinkshaming. She’s into being held down. There is no need to shame her for that.
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And people say romance is dead.