Since Lemmy is federated, and the admins of each instance choose what’s allowed and what’s not in their own instance.

How do you feel about what’s allowed and what’s not in your current instance ?

I’ll start: I’ve read people complaining about my instance admins, but I haven’t experienced nor seen anything I specifically disagree with.

And I’ve read things they wrote that I absolutely agree with, like not federating with Meta under any circumstances.

So for now, I’m happy with it. If I get banned randomly, I don’t think I’d go to a different instance, though. I’d probably just stop visiting Lemmy altogether.

  • @[email protected]
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    My instance has no censorship and federates with all, and moderation only happens for obvious illegal content, not someone having an opinion that is not popular.

    To me, it’s what the fediverse is supposed to be, so very happy.

    • WellTheresYourCobbler [ey/em, they/them]
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      94 months ago

      Yeah they might not always get everything right but I’d rather have an overactive mod team than an under active (useless) mod team especially when it’s all done for free

      • Cowbee [he/they]
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        64 months ago

        That’s not an accurate way to view Hexbear. Hexbear is very explicitly for Marxists and Anarchists, but the vast majority of users live in areas where those are fringe viewpoints. Hexbear allows people to talk to other like-minded leftists without having to constsntly deal with people hostile to Anarchism and/or Marxism, which is the default in their lives.

        A more accurate “bubble” would be instances that uphold ideologies aligned with the status quo in my opinion, as it minimizes exposure to other viewpoints.

        • @[email protected]
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          24 months ago

          I dont care that they talk to each other that way. What anoys me about hexbear is the way they treat other people that just want to have a converation with them. Any other opinion gets banned instantly, even if it comes from a person that just wants to discuss a topic open minded.

          • Cowbee [he/they]
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            That’s not my experience. Most people that are genuinely open minded are welcomed, but debatelording and getting emotionally vicious gets banned quickly because Hexbear is for leftists to hang out, not (generally) debating.

            Debating in general isn’t constructive unless both parties are aligned in goals and seek alignment and alliance.

  • @[email protected]
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    I am very happy with feddit.org . I have not seen an issue with overmoderation, but I have also not seen a problem with spam or trolling. I believe hexbear is (rightfully so) defederated but other then that i did not notice any defederations.

    The do not allow pornography which I support as you would essentially be hosting it yourself when it is federated which can become icky quickly. But I think this is a bit of a difference to other instances.

    The instance also has a nice little community which is active enough to not be boring but small enough to feel like a community (might also be because of having a common language)

  • @[email protected]
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    54 months ago

    Mine’s cool.

    Yours otoh will ban you for political disagreements (read: supporting the authoritarian states they don’t like OR not supporting the authoritarian states they do like) and censors the word “bitch,” which is why I left the second new instances popped up. As an anti-any-authoritarian who considers that a bitchin’ opinion it’s not the place for me.

    • Cowbee [he/they]
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      All instances ban based on political disagreements, and this is largely dictated by which of the 3 general ideological “camps” on Lemmy the instance leans towards, be it liberalism, Marxism, or Anarchism. Instance choice is largely a selection of which bias you prefer, as everyone has bias.

      Censoring misogynistic slurs is a good thing as well, in my opinion

      • @[email protected]
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        24 months ago

        I don’t generally say hateful things, so no risk of being censored for that, and I like that my instance doesn’t censor anything that could possibly be considered a slur the way .ml does.

        I was originally on .ml and I remember seeing a comment that had a legitimate use of a word that could be considered a slur in another context. I don’t remember the exact scenario, but it was something equivalent to saying “response time retardation” in relation to drunk driving. And “retardation” was censored, which created unnecessary confusion. I’d been thinking of switching instances anyway, and that silly little example is what pushed me over the edge. I guess I’d rather not be cushioned from every word that might be hurtful, especially when doing so can cause confusion.

        No hate or disrespect to .ml, by the way - I’m very grateful to Dessalines and crew for creating lemmy and Jerboa, and I respect their right to administer their instance the way they see fit. To me that’s the neat thing about the fediverse - it allows for a “different strokes for different folks” approach. :)

        • @[email protected]
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          24 months ago

          Yeah the exact thing you described happened here as well, it’s a tiny bit annoying although not enough for me to switch instances over

  • @[email protected]
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    I haven’t had a single issue with feeling censored at DB0. If anything, it is users from other instances acting like they own the whole Fediverse that I have occasionally had a problem with, but I don’t think any of them were moderators.

    • @[email protected]
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      14 months ago

      I sat down with my partner last night, to help him pick out an instance to join. He said he wasn’t unixy enough to feel at home on SDF.

      I feel comfortable with his decision to join dbzer0. Folks from dbzer0 seem like good sorts, and somehow none of y’all have pissed me off enough to get added to my block list.

      • @[email protected]
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        I honestly feel like parasocial friends with DB0 at this point, and he is a really standup person in my opinion. Definitely the kind of intelligent nerd I admire.

  • Lettuce eat lettuce
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    .ml here, I’m happy with this community. I know the reputation it has, but honestly, I haven’t really seen it. I’m a hardcore leftist, but I’ve been very critical of China, Russia, etc. And I’m not a tankie. Obviously haven’t been banned or had my comments removed.

    The mods here seem quite reasonable, and of course if folks don’t agree, there are a lot of other instances.

    I used to be a free-speech absolutist when I was young, but then I realized that there isn’t such a thing. Even the few places online that pride themselves on having “no censorship” like 4-chan still have a handful of things that they don’t allow.

    Quite frankly, I think those places are pretty nasty overall and I have no desire to emulate them. Racists, Pedos, lgbt-phobes don’t need a platform or to have their opinions elevated or taken seriously.

    I wouldn’t think a top university’s physics department is improved by devoting classes and curriculum to flat earth or 7-day creationism. Likewise, I don’t think a forum or server is made better by allowing racists and bigots to have a safe space on it.

    Of course, you have to decide what crosses the line, but welcome to real life. There’s a difference between a hardcore neo-nazi who thinks Jews and black folks are literal sub-humans, and your 87 year-old grandpa who unironically calls the employees at his favorite asian buffet, “Chinamen.”

    • @[email protected]
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      24 months ago

      I think 99.99% of Lemmy is hardcore leftist so it’s no wonder they don’t fuck with you, so it’s no wonder that you have no complaints.

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        Lemmy largely has 3 camps, the Anarchists, the Marxists, and the Liberals, and each instance leans overwhelmingly in one or 2 of those directions. Looking at the number of active users on each instance, at this point it’s fair to say that the liberal camp is probably the largest, as much as I wish that wasn’t true.

        That does make for ample radicalization territory, however.

    • @[email protected]
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      I haven’t really had any bad experiences with .ml communities or users. I consider myself a Marxist actually. I mostly saw the China, Russia, and North Korean dick sucking on Reddit. I remember someone on Reddit actually arguing that leftists should use Redstar OS (North Korean Linux distro designed to spy on its users) because its made by a socialist country that cares about its people. Guess that’s why they’re executed for stealing bread. I’m sorry about your instances bad reputation, I really haven’t seen it. Besides, there are assholes in every community.

    • socsa
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      I have been banned twice from .ml just for mentioning that Russia shot down a civilian airplane in Ukraine (the first time)

      • Lettuce eat lettuce
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        Can’t really speak to specifics. I’ll just say that there are definitely posts on .ml news and commentary communities that go against the typical views of many .ml members, and they are left up by the mods and allowed to be discussed and debated.

        Every community has censorship, it’s a spectrum. But that’s what I love about the federation model and FOSS in general. There are always different communities with different focuses and standards, something for everybody. And still we all have the freedom to block content we don’t want to see or support.

    • @[email protected]
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      24 months ago

      In general communities it’s ok here but in global events it’s easy to see in the modlog that certain topics which are not favorable for Socialist-In-Name-Only are hidden very fast.

      • Lettuce eat lettuce
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        14 months ago

        I haven’t checked the log, but I get my news from several different sources, Lemmy is only one of them.

  • @[email protected]
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    Supper happy with lemmy.word

    You can actually have a conversation there without the whole thing being taken over by people who write like they are edgy 14 year old American tankies.

  • @[email protected]
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    64 months ago

    Massive fan of feddit.uk and Lemm.ee, moderation has been great, feddit.uk the admin have shown a willingness and urgency in helping user. My personal experience; helping with resetting a backend issue effecting my account and looking into bot’ed down voting when I DM’d them.

    Lemm.ee is just good with their federation philosophy which can be found on the sidebar.

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        Agreed. I appreciate the well-thought and out level headed approach lemm.ee has taken.

        Actually, for a moment I was annoyed they wouldn’t defederate with a certain offensive instance. But, now, looking back on it, I think they made the right decision. I appreciate that defederation is an extreme tool that shouldn’t be used lightly.

  • Shimitar
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    I am the only (AFAIK) Italian instance and pretty happy. No censorship.

    I don’t know how people from Lemmy.world stand it, honestly.

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    I love that lemm.ee is federated with everyone, because that means I frequently encounter ideas that I - gasp - disagree with!

    • @[email protected]
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      Yea Im pretty happy with lemm.ee too. Great instance great (former) admin/founder. Great admin team un general. Could not be happier

    • Rose Thorne(She/Her)
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      Not only that, but Lemmy gives us a decent amount of control over our own curation, at the user level. We’re from the same instance, but our feeds could be totally opposite each other dependant on who/what we choose to filter/block.

      It’s one of my favorite things about this platform, and I feel like .ee’s ethos really works alongside it.

    • @[email protected]
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      I think there’s a huge difference between seeing opposing ideas and just seeing a bunch of propaganda and brigading.1

      • Cowbee [he/they]
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        That’s a bit of an interesting dillema. Anyone that supports something consistently is doing propaganda, so it’s generally better if people reveal their biases. As for brigading, it’s difficult to tell if there’s just a large group of an ideologically different instance coming across a post in their all feed or of its a concerted effort.

    • @[email protected]
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      54 months ago

      The line is at least very blurred with moderation. One person’s moderation is another person’s censorship.

      • @[email protected]
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        14 months ago

        Its the same thing. People are just primed into thinking that censorship is universally bad in every instance.

      • ShimmeringKoi [comrade/them]
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        It’s meaning in abstract is simple, but it’s actual manifestations are usually quite complex. Self-censorship for example: If you self-censor out of fear of a negative social reaction, to what degree is that actually someone else stopping you from talking? Everyone else, or the idea of everyone else? I would say that any view that’s held by a group of people that’s pervasive enough to cause others to calibrate their words towards them, any cultural context strong enough that visitors feel a need to adjust for it, automatically and unconsciously practices censorship.

        • @[email protected]
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          My experience with it has always been “they don’t like me talking so they stopped me”. Pretty simple. I speculate that this is the general case.

          But yes, I have encountered the odor of that second variety a few times. Just the odor tho. I am not one to restrain my speech for fear of offending. On social media anyway.

    • Shimitar
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      24 months ago

      Lemmy.world defederated with many interesting instances.

      No piracy communities for example!

      I couldn’t stand it.

  • apotheotic (she/her)
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    54 months ago

    Delighted. Constructive or helpful disagreements are encouraged, and the mods ensure that I hardly ever encounter a bigot.