• @[email protected]
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    Lemmy culture? Nothing, lacks diversity. I often feel like I’m just talking to the same guy. Very rare to read views that don’t align with the groupthink.

    EDIT: Okay, one thing that came to mind is that I can talk about autistic stuff that I do and nobody seems to question/judge it.

    • @[email protected]
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      75 months ago

      Okay, one thing that came to mind is that I can talk about autistic stuff that I do and nobody seems to question/judge it.

      Of course, the one guy you’re talking to is also autistic.

    • tpyoman
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      35 months ago

      Isn’t that a good thing though? I would rather be around people that accept my fucked brain than people putting their hand on my knee to stop me from shaking my legs a la restless leg.

      Though I do agree that a variation in opinion would be nice.

      • Captain Aggravated
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        45 months ago

        I just thought “You’ve heard of bananas in pajamas, now get ready for beans in jeans” and then my mind went the elf on a shelf meme where you’d depict it visually, and picturing an anthropomorphic bean wearing blue jeans, my mind looked at that and guessed “Kidneys in dungarees?”

  • @[email protected]
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    55 months ago

    Not the most extra ordinary of things but I do like that there is no (USA ?) babysitting when it comes to say fuck etc.

    • @[email protected]
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      275 months ago

      Yes, so nice proportion of smart people. I was whining to my wife the other day how I miss the internet of the 90s when that was more the case.

  • @[email protected]
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    TBH it feels like a pretty continuous evolution of Reddit, Digg, and whatever was between Digg and usenet. There’s self selection that’s made it a bit more harmonious than Reddit, but that’s it.

    That being said, it’s super cool to get a glimpse into the million different experiences people have had. The internet is a magical place.

    • @[email protected]
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      45 months ago

      whatever was between Digg and usenet

      for me, it was a mix of Slashdot and a bunch of discussion boards.

      • @[email protected]
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        Oh yeah, I forgot about Slashdot!

        I was around for a bit of the disparate forums era, but I have no idea which ones fed into which 2.0 platforms.

  • @[email protected]
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    425 months ago

    Much kinder than Reddit, people here know how to disagree and discuss things in a more constructive way.

    • @[email protected]
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      65 months ago

      Yep! Even when I’ve disagreed with people, it’s been more of an exchange of knowledge rather than one person asking for citations and then proceeding to ignore them all.

      It’s okay to disagree, sometimes you can learn from each other :)

    • @[email protected]
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      Seconded. I’ve definitely had more discussions here than my last year on reddit. Reddit is just a rat race to get the most upvotes for flippant comments or you get downvoted for being nonconformist, especially in the big subs. Also, participants on lemmy with agendas tend to be way more transparent - as in political or pseudo-science. Far easier to avoid or block if need be.

  • @[email protected]
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    45 months ago

    My favorite is: if you disagree, you can always just go to another instance or even create your own. Other than that, I like how, instead of a total score, posts show likes and dislikes separately. This is more of a technical thing than a cultural one, but it has a big impact on making brigading less effective. In general, all these technical decisions make Lemmy very friendly to a variety of cultures and people from across different spectrums of political and other opinions.

    • @[email protected]
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      15 months ago

      if you disagree, you can always just go to another instance

      This seems to unintentionally reveal something less positive that the internet has done to our culture.

          • @[email protected]
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            55 months ago

            They’ve always existed in some way or another though.

            Which pub you went to, which newspaper you read, which TV channel you watched, they all created echo chambers and bubbles in the past.

            At least with the Fediverse we’re more likely to break out of it due to various instances showing up in our feeds. Various viewpoints being visible. The Fediverse is still in it’s early days so it’s still a bit monoculture with the likes of Linux and anti-capitalism but that’s changing now. We’re seeing more and more different takes on different topics as time goes by.

  • @[email protected]
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    75 months ago

    Alot of people are really helpful for any questions you might ask, as long as you are respectful

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    It’s a plus and a negative: how anti-fascist and anti-capitalist it is. I do think that it can go too far at times, but I just block those people. We should try to be less binary as that just isn’t what reality is like.

    • @[email protected]
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      25 months ago

      Yes, it’s good, although I’ve noticed there’s a purge feature now that’s being inevitably misused.

      • Blaze (he/him)
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        25 months ago

        Is it federated, or would the purged content still be visible on other instances?

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          Hmm, it’s hard to say. The purge record doesn’t display anything like username searchable by the standard frontend, and it’s still a lot rarer than normal removals. The top purge on .ml right now relates to this thread, shown federated to my instance, and it’s neither of the ones visible there, but that could just be that it wasn’t federated in time.

          The reason given was that it’s a reply to the wrong thread, which should definitely be a normal removal. The only clear-cut case for a true purge is doxxing or CSAM.