So many comments giving OP advice on how to get into a relationship with the girl. Has a single person here, at all, considered that maybe, just maybe, OP genuinely didn’t want a relationship with this girl…?
I also think deflecting with “nah you couldn’t” would be funny in the right context. Follow it with a joke about increasing her powerlevel first and you’re good
There is a very fitting song for this.
Stupid Girl Lyrics
[Verse 1]
You pretend you’re high
Pretend you’re bored
Pretend you’re anything
Just to be adored
And what you need
Is what you get
[Pre-Chorus]
Don’t believe in fear
Don’t believe in faith
Don’t believe in anything
That you can’t break
[Chorus]
You stupid girl (Ah)
You stupid girl (Ah)
All you had, you wasted (Ah)
All you had, you wasted (Ah)
[Verse 2]
What drives you on (Drives you on)
Can drive you mad (Drive you mad)
A million lies to sell yourself
Is all you ever had
[Pre-Chorus]
Don’t believe in love
Don’t believe in hate
Don’t believe in anything
That you can’t waste
[Chorus]
You stupid girl (Ah)
You stupid girl (Ah)
Can’t believe you fake it (Ah)
Can’t believe you fake it (Ah)
[Instrumental Break]
[Pre-Chorus]
Don’t believe in fear
Don’t believe in pain
Don’t believe in anyone
That you can’t tame
Basically, if this is a representative sample of this girl’s personality …
(huge if there, this is a single 4chan post lol)
… then she is a textbook narcissist, potentially to the point of being diagnosable with NPD if she doesn’t grow out of this attitude, get a reality check that actually sinks into the subconscious.
A spoiled, pampered brat whose never been told no, who never gets any real, meaningful interaction or validation, and tries to fill that void with a grandiose self image, absurd overconfidence and privelege.
Angelica from Rugrats.
…And my take here would be the same if the genders/sexes were reversed, or some other combo.
It is pretty not normal for anybody to have that kind of interaction with anybody else, to just boisterously state they could have ‘insert random person’, then have rando anon just flatly reply ‘sorry not interested’, … and then throw a giant hissy fit.
I am seriously hoping this interaction occures between 12 or 14 year olds, but looking at the horror kaleidoscope that is social media these days?
Yeah, could be anybody, any age, at this point.
Some women have never been told no. It can be more fun than saying yes sometimes though.
What happened?
A 4channer made up a story for attention.
So… in other words, fake and gay
How dare you.
Gay people don’t make up stories on the internet for attention.
The fake ones do.
I’m sure some exist, but not to the extent of “straight” young teenage males.
I was just goofin, I don’t have any sort of insight into that, I just saw gay and needed to add fake. It was important for dumb brain
No problem. I do the same, sometimes I make a joke that falls flat, but sounded hilarious in my head.
Have a good one, thanks for the thoughtful response.
I’m not sure about that. One of the gay dudes on our discord is constantly making shit up stories based off crap he read on the internet he thinks the rest of us have somehow not seen already.
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I don’t care if this makes me a bad person, I get such immense satisfaction from this kind of emotional blowout. It’s so fulfilling to see bona fide narcissists fail then go hysterical about it❤️
The correct reply is…
“There’s really only one way you could have me, and that is [describe whatever sort of sexual kink you’re into]. After that, I might consider it.”
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Be prepared with pictures to make sure your communication is clear.
Make a WikiHow, don’t let her know you wrote it, make it weirdly specific but in a plausibly deniable way.
That’s oddly specific
“… If your boobs were like 6 times as big, but still natural…”
I mean, obviously fictitious and elatedly happy
That being said, there really are people like that. I’ve been in that situation, and I’ve seen it happen plenty. Maybe not those exact words, but sometimes , yes “I could have you if I wanted”
There really are people that are both so arrogant as to believe they’re that “good”, and so narcissistic that whether or not you’re interested doesn’t matter.
Like, I’m not some kind of super studly dude. I’m big, and strong, but I’m also hairy, balding, have always had at least a little belly on me, wear glasses, and have a round face, so I don’t have those chiseled features that folks get wet over. But I do pretty damn good. My kind of look has a degree of popularity, and the mind inside the body makes it work. So this isn’t some kind of situation where everything is chasing me.
That being said, it is really annoying how often some shitty excuse for a human being has assumed that I would just jump in the sack with them, much less anything more. And it isn’t even the stereotypical “hot babes” either. Just women that assume that because they have a pussy, a guy is going to fall into the damn thing. You kinda expect narcissism when someone is on the prowl, looking for hookups and arm candy. But when you’re at a casual dinner party, and they’re coming at you with that kind of thinking, it’s extra extra. I mean, it isn’t always women, but the women tend to be more insistent, and more about demeaning you than men are.
When it’s guys, you make it clear you’re hetero, and it’s “oh, well then” and it almost always ends there, or with a simple “if you tried this, that might change”, and then they’re done.
But the women that think that way? It’s like they pin their whole sense of self on the idea that they can have any guy, no matter what. And, if you aren’t the classically handsome dude, you’re insulting them by just refusing to agree that if they wanted you, they could. Like, motherfucker, you’re insulting me just by saying that you don’t want me, and you’re adding in the assumption that my dick is in control of me? GTFO.
You know what’s funny though? Only ever had one stripper try that shit. Bounced gay bars and titty bars off and on for years. You’d think strippers would be more prone to that kind of thing than other professions. Not for me. I would get the whole “it’s a shame you’re such a good guy, I’d ruin you” here and there, bit that’s a whole different thing entirely.
Ran into it most with nurses, but I worked in that field more than as a bouncer, so they’re disproportionately represented in the people I would have extended interactions with.
I eventually learned to just say okay and walk away. That kind of thinking, there’s no point in arguing, and you can’t change the subject, so you just leave.
yes “I could have you if I wanted”
i mean, in some twisted sense of the word, if they were a better/different person, they could have them.
fake and gay
Woosh.
Imaginary and ecstatic
I knew a woman who was absolutely certain she could have any guy easily. it’s true she was most attractive, but also super toxic, like she really had a history of driving her partners insane. Then she took interest in a rich boy who’d recently made some successful investment in timber trade. The dude in question was no stranger to toxicity either, he’d been quite the fuckboy. One guy almost beat him up over this once and everyone cheered, but they ended up becoming friends, and his new bestie really had a good influence on him, he’d become a pretty decent guy. Anyway, the toxic lady made advances on the ex-fuckboy and he said “No, don’t take it personally, I’d rather not be turned into a donkey or whatever it is you do to your boyfriends, thanks you.”
But she did take it personally. Her old father owned quite the estate, including a very big, strong and aggressive bull. She unleashed it on the town to destroy the homes and devour the crops. The bull was also toxic, so no food would grow in its wake for seven years or something. But ex-fuckboi and his niceboi bff were very strong, so they killed the bull, and brought its carcass to toxic lady, as a sassy offering, which she didn’t appreciate.
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Nice :)
Ngl, I was expecting mankind to get slammed at the end, but that’s even better
Unexpected Gilgamesh. Well done!
G I R U G A M E S H ! ! !
I think I just cringed at my self.
ow.
Why doesn’t that happen to me?
Well, the female friend basically said ‘I am so hot anyone I want (for example you) would love to have me as a girlfriend’.
By denying that, he denied her self worth.
Of course, her stance doesn’t take into account things like personal preference or matching personalities.
Or how unattractive that mindset itself is. It’s like the opposite of a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Or a less generous read: ‘you’re not attractive enough to get with anyone as hot as me so you couldn’t turn me down’.
I’m sure everyone has their own answer to this question but I would really like her to clarify, what do you mean ‘have me’?
Please let it be pegging
I think the better clarification we need to make is that this is 4chan and thus utterly made-up bullshit, or designed to further an agenda.
“That’s
myno secret. Anyone could have me”Hahaha. Just another case of being gay unbeknownst to OP.
The core concept of the problem is not related to gender, it’s just that in societies highly differentiated by gender people have different means.
Talk to male friend
He randomly says if he wanted me he could have me
I tell him no he couldn’t
He gets really mad and says he could easily have me if he wanted to, practically has a fit of rage
Changed pronouns exemplifies that that the core concept of this is that “having someone” is supposedly less about consent and more about compliance to standardised appearance (aka so-called “objective” beauty). If you have a lot of means (e.g. male or wealth privilege), this gets creepy real fast.
Like offering a horse
‘Nuh uh’
‘Yuh huh!!’
‘prove it’!
‘no u’
