• Spot
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    804 months ago

    Crazy how many folks can’t scroll past something they aren’t interested in. And not thoughtful critiques. Just whining really. Their delicate eyes witnessed it, thus they were compelled to come make a comment.

    I don’t think I’d ever find it appropriate to whine in the comments of a user’s post, over a post breaking no rules. I have, and would… just scroll by.

    I don’t see “No Pizza Cake” in the rules… why would someone think it would just never show up?

    • @[email protected]
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      244 months ago

      This comic is neither funny nor thoughtful. I’d say it’s getting the critique it deserves.

    • @[email protected]
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      214 months ago

      And not thoughtful critiques. Just whining really

      So just scroll past it if you don’t like it?

        • @[email protected]
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          194 months ago

          Are you? I haven’t whined on this post, so that’s a weird accusation to make. Methinks you’re projecting, sorry your delicate eyes witnessed an opinion you don’t like.

    • @[email protected]
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      264 months ago

      i mean, the best punishment for bad art is lack of engagement.

      I don’t think pizzacake is a troll (as in makes bad comics so it gets negative engagement), but here we are.

      People complaining about her in the comments actually helps her.

      if you don’t like it, just move along, don’t give hold her in your head like that zen story about crossing the river with a girl.

      • @[email protected]
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        204 months ago

        I’ll be honest, I kinda wanted lemmy to not have the same mentality as the audience of r/comics who just straight up hate all men. But it looks like these comments are kind of a warzone. I wonder if the mods from that sub have any power here? They defend her from even polite and constructive criticism.

        • @[email protected]
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          34 months ago

          I was similarly disappointed. This kind of humor isn’t funny at all. It’s just a made up scenario to trigger people. I can’t prove that it’s b8 but, if it’s not, it’s damn close.

        • @[email protected]
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          204 months ago

          Bro, I wouldn’t call this “hate all men” content. If you think all men (or even a majority of men) are like that guy, you need to rework your thought patterns.

    • @[email protected]
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      I think it’s basically internet law at this point, if Pizzacake is posted, cranky men must make it known that they find her (and her comics) cRinGe and mEdiOcRe and also she’s a mAnHaTer (dontchaknow).

            • @[email protected]
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              104 months ago

              So you honestly think people who can’t stand her, subscribe to her OF?

              Do you spend a lot of time on Fox News? What about Teslas? Do you have one? No? Big fan of Christianity? No? Well, that MUST mean you go to church! Right?

              Where do you people find this broken logic?

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                  What I posted is what we like to call illustrative sarcasm.

                  And what is funny is that you think my illustrating your bad joke is a representation of what bothers me without ever having known who I am or what I’m about.

                  lol

                  I basically made you illustrate the argument against her by your own example.

                  I judge her on what she has said and done. You’ve judged me on who you need me to be so your opinion appears to be valid.

  • @[email protected]
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    344 months ago

    Can we please not bring pizza cake comics over from reddit? They’re so mid they aren’t even funny. Strawman comics that show off the author’s frustrations.

  • @[email protected]
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    I can see that people don’t always know how to word their critique. But the point is simple: This is a toxic way to deal with that type of annoyance in your life. It’s a comic, indeed, maybe not meant to be taken seriously, but I would much better see comics about interesting, or fun things. This type of ordinary, sarcastic social commentary you present as a comic does not help your cause nor make the sub a better place. Let’s not perpetrate the “owning” culture so prevalent in social media. Shall you?

  • @[email protected]
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    454 months ago

    Why is it that everytime I see this artist nowadays it’s just a preachy kill-a-strawman comic? I remember them being funny back in the day, what happened? Did they change, did I? Am I mistaking a shite copycat for an artist I remember fondly? Is this what senility feels like? How was your day?

  • @[email protected]
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    844 months ago

    Seriously – my wife takes 0% of my bullshit, and that’s such a great quality. Just sayin’.

    • @[email protected]
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      194 months ago

      My wife tolerates a little of my bullshit. But that tolerance may be because she can’t tell if I’m just being weird or not. And she knew I was different when she was dating me and yet she still married me.

    • Batman
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      384 months ago

      I just went through the last 10 days of posts in the community. This is the only PC one that shows up in that time frame. Other artists have multipes in that time. So, less than once a week… guess there are different ideas of what is spam.

      • @[email protected]
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        404 months ago

        Any normal human would go, “Whatever” and move on.

        But not this person. They wanted to let people know that they have been visually assaulted, made up a story about seeing it too much, and then even says “I’m blocking you!”

    • @[email protected]
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      164 months ago

      There’s no joke. People seem to enjoy feeling either superior or outraged or both and the name of the game is user engagement. That’s how you end up with this type of thing.

    • The Octonaut
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      The green lady thinks “who’d pay for her nudes?” means “I won’t date you”

        • The Octonaut
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          The punchline is entirely self-referential. Or rather, there isn’t a punchline. This is a really basic exchange as could be found in the real comment sections of basically any woman posting photos of herself online.

          Except that the person who draws this comic uses it primarily to advertise her OnlyFans, so somehow she’s connected annoyance with the constant promotion of her terrible joke-free comics with the same thing that that means all criticism of her is incel fury and not, yknow, people wanting comics to be promoted for how good they are rather than how entrenched her subscribers are.

          • @[email protected]
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            44 months ago

            I see now what everyone’s talking about, without really broaching the subject (without sounding totally incel). This sums is up nicely, although even including that she does OF will make some people call you the incel. At any rate, thank you

        • ඞmir
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          Some men think women care about “value” of people when dating but instead women are either not looking for a relationship or not as objectifying as these men

          The punchline is that women now use this dumb “value” idea to filter out who to even associate with in the first place, by just avoiding any guy who mentions this shit

          • @[email protected]
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            114 months ago

            I guess i just don’t like these type of comics. It’s akin to someone posting “Haterz r my motivatorz!” on facebook circa 2011

            • ඞmir
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              This is better imo, part of the punchline here is that she’s already married and is just fucking annoyed by this guy hitting on her in the most disrespectful way possible

  • ‮redirtSdeR
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    64 months ago

    lemmy users when they see a lukewarm webcomic (they can just block the community)

  • DontMakeMoreBabies
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    264 months ago

    Wow, some folks need to remember that online life isn’t real life…

    Please, go touch some grass before you scare some normie by talking about your favorite/most-hated web comic.

        • @[email protected]
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          174 months ago

          I see you, dutifully trying to cover all the slight and misinformation in here with proper attributions and context.

          It must be exhausting.

          Thanks for effort, and don’t forget to breathe and keep hydrated. Thanks for trying to hold community together.

          • @[email protected]
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            84 months ago

            The context is that pizzacake knows how men get treated and then tries to say that it’s all hypothetical.

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          Yep, I think the comic was called talk. Here’s another unedited pizzacake slide that shows how women act towards men who’ve done nothing wrong. This one is extra credit because, to her audience, the guy in this is the villain:

      • @[email protected]
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        154 months ago

        You think the treatment of men by women is bad? Wait till your whole family dies, and then other men tell you to suck it up.

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    It’s such a stupid satire by a sad person who can’t address valid criticism and who feel that their only recourse is to make up a fantasy.

    Staw man/Fantasy: Guy telling a random woman on the street, who happens to be married, “I wouldn’t even date you”. The strong and independent woman answers with sarcasm.

    Reality: The woman is a single mother with 10+ past partners who has failed to secure a good father for her child. She puts herself online and gets scrutinized and criticized.

    This is not a defense of particular internet personalities, who may or may not deserve criticism on their own. Rather, it’s to point out that these comics are stupid, and don’t address valid criticism that’s out there that need to be addressed properly.

    • @[email protected]
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      84 months ago

      Next, you’re going to tell me that a snail doing cocaine isn’t realistic?

      No, no, shh, I want to believe.

    • @[email protected]
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      124 months ago

      You’ve never seen the “I wouldn’t even date you” negging, where adult-aged boys try to trick women into pleading their case to the kid?

      I think I go to the bar 2 or 3 times a year, and I’ve seen it several times. I’m glad that doesn’t seem to be as much of a thing in the gay community, at least that I’ve seen.

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        It depends on who the male character in the comic is supposed to be. If it’s in that setting, then yeah I can imagine it happening.

        I was thinking about MGTOWs and internet personalities who use words like “high value male/female”, and my interpretation of this comic is that this is supposed to be satire of them. If that’s what the comic artist was going for then, I believe my criticism is deserved.

        If it’s referencing immature men saying “I wouldn’t even date you” to women they actually find attractive, well, I haven’t seen it myself but I can imagine it happening. That’s however not what I was thinking about addressing this comic.

        The comic is a bit ambiguous about what it’s talking about specifically.

    • @[email protected]
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      84 months ago

      Thanks, saved me having to write that. There is a lot of valid criticism women can level against “the modern man”, depending on the culture they live in. But this is not it. I have never heard of a guy claiming to be of higher status and cussing off a woman who rejected him. Maybe we sometimes think we’re higher status than a woman or whatever, but then again we do that with other men too. It’s a human thing, not a gender thing. Women most definitely categorize men into lower and higher strata subconsciously too, if nothing else.

      • Spot
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        194 months ago

        “I, as a man, have never encountered this scenario myself. Therefore, it is completely made up and reason to be further misogynistic.” Is all I saw there brother.

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        I’m glad to hear from someone else who is seeing what I’m seeing.

        The sarcastic strong and independent woman vs a stupid man meme has nothing to do with reality whatsoever. The worst part is that it’s masking some serious issues society is dealing with.

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      Staw man/Fantasy: Guy telling a random woman on the street, who happens to be married, “I wouldn’t even date you”. The strong and independent woman answers with sarcasm.

      This is one of the most prominent parts of manosphere ideology, and they are not quiet about it or shy about sharing it. We used to call it “negging”. This comic is pointing out the absurdity of toxic men thinking they are too good for most women.

      Reality: The woman is a single mother with 10+ past partners who has failed to secure a good father for her child.

      I have no idea what the reality is for this cartoonist, nor do I care, but you’ve managed to make three misogynistic value judgments in one short sentence, which is kind of impressive in a sad and pathetic way. First, there’s nothing inherently wrong with being a single mother. Second, a woman’s worth is not determined by the number of past partners she’s had, a standard which is never applied to men. Third, securing a good father for her child is not the be-all-end-all goal of a single mother. Raising her child(ren) is. This can be done with or without a man involved.

      This is not a defense of particular internet personalities, who may or may not deserve criticism on their own.

      Maybe not, but it sure comes off as an endorsement of their values.

      Rather, it’s to point out that these comics are stupid, and don’t address valid criticism that’s out there that need to be addressed properly.

      So a comic strip didn’t address sexism in the specific way that you approve of, and you think the proper response is to degrade the cartoonist as a whorish single mother who can’t find a good man?

      Dude. You are the guy in the comic.

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        54 months ago

        First, there’s nothing inherently wrong with being a single mother.

        Single motherhood is not easy, and I have sympathy for any woman who has become a single mother with no power of her own. The critique is not aimed at single motherhood, but rather at women who make (selfish) decisions in life that leaves the children without a father. It cannot be understated how damaging that can be for her children.

        One reason why I said that certain internet personalities deserve criticism on their own is that they advocate for men engaging in promiscuity and cause the same problems that these personalities claim they dislike.

        Second, a woman’s worth is not determined by the number of past partners she’s had, a standard which is never applied to men.

        Yes, it’s a factor that men will judge a woman by. It makes sense, because a more extensive past will more likely affect a future relationship.

        Men should be held to a higher standard as well, I don’t disagree with that.

        Third, securing a good father for her child is not the be-all-end-all goal of a single mother. Raising her child(ren) is. This can be done with or without a man involved.

        It has been shown that children who are raised with a single parent fare worse than with both parents. It’s clear that single motherhood is not something to be desired, neither for the children nor the mothers themselves. Many single mothers are complaining, on the internet about this, so it’s strange that you are trying to defend them by claiming that there is no issue to complain about…

        So a comic strip didn’t address sexism in the specific way that you approve of, and you think the proper response is to degrade the cartoonist as a whorish single mother who can’t find a good man?

        I wasn’t talking about the cartoonist. I was talking about the made up characters that supposedly reflect reality. When someone sees this comic, it’s most likely that they don’t think about who drew it. They will likely see the comic in isolation from the artist, just like I did.

        • Spot
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          184 months ago

          Just, eww!! Fucking eeewww!! 🤮

            • Spot
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              154 months ago

              Yeah, uh no, not unfamiliar. See the above comic. You are in it and it’s got your panties all in a twist apparently.

              People who need some professional assistance will do that shit you’re talking about.

              I was emoting how sick you make me feel, when one of you randomly creeps up. And especially when you think anyone cares about your weird ideals, for any gender.

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                I think the problem is that you think I’m arguing in bad faith, and I’m not. Nor is anything that I said that controversial.

                No offense, but I think you really need to touch some grass.

                • Spot
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                  84 months ago

                  Oh my. Well since I only get on here periodically, I think YOU should get your Very Own Personal Tag!

                  Then, if you’re still around after I unblock you, I’ll get to see your fancy lil tag if you shownup, and remember how sensitive you got over a comic. That you coulda’ just ignored ffs.

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          It has been shown that children who are raised with a single parent fare worse than with both parents.

          By who? Where?

      • @[email protected]
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        44 months ago

        You are free to disagree, but I don’t feel I would have been able to complete my point without the second half.

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    Lemmy got a bit worse lately sadly

    Truth to be said Lemmy has negative resistance to bad actors due to its nature and implementation.

    If we treat social media like stock market then fundamental analysis of Lemmy does not bode well for long term investment so to speak.

    Or to put it yet another way. Lemmy is less shitty than reddit and that says a lot about how enshittified and unusable Reddit is in 2025