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Cake day: May 21st, 2025

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  • As Alice Oseman says in her books, anyone can pick any label, or choose no label, of sexuality and no one can deny them.

    With that said, at the end of the day, the more difficult to reconcile self concepts (how people see themselves) with the real selves (how people behave in real world), the more unlikely for ones to be happy. The bigger the chism, the more fragmented how people see themselves.

    Op, are you happy?

    Many people attracted to both sexes sexually may choose to label themselves gay because emotionally and spiritually, they want to grow old with someone with the same gender.

    Sexuality is more than sexual attraction.






  • True story.

    I was given a chance to talk to a bunch of high schoolers about volunteering at volunteer healthcare clinic.

    Most highschoolers ignored me. They had no idea what healthcare is. They think it is free.

    They feel invincible, as expected.

    I stressed the importance of volunteering because there are many people are uninsured and underinsured.

    One highschooler made a snide comment, “Everyone has insurance. Our family have Medicaid. It is free.”

    I hope life will treat her kindly.