NTA/At least don’t sound like the asshole from what you’ve shared. As always, nr 1 advice is “don’t take advice from the internet or people who don’t truly know your situation”.

That being said, I believe relationships are about mutual respect and even adoration, which it sounds like might not abound in your relationship. I’d say his reaction to your asking for more affection is a red flag, that being said maybe there’s a chance he was getting defensive or may have misunderstood your point which might mean you can overcome it together. In my experience these types of discussions have to take place in a safe space where mutual respect has been established, like first talking earnestly about how you feel about each other and then proceeding to how you can make each other even happier.

But yeah, nobody here knows your situation well enough to render judgement, as always, barring you two establishing a healthy method of communication around these things, seeking professional help should be the only real consideration.

(Click saving) this guy (and myself) move the potatoes to another ceramic, add celery to the carrot-onion mix & chop that and leave it under the roast

I’d go so far as to venture a guess and say this particular individual wouldn’t like any skin colour darker than Marine Le Pen’s bleached asshole…

Wait, we can actually discuss studies with a critical eye here? Cause I made a similar comment in another vegan community elsewhere and got silenced.

It kinda sucked because I’m very much in favour of plant-based diets and I’m always excited to read proper good studies on full veganism and how we can reduce meat consumption.

Absolutely, but that’s the easy case, computerphile had this interesting video discussing a proof of concept exploration which showed that indirectly including stuff in the training/accessible data could also lead to such behaviours. Take it with a grain of salt cause it’s obviously a bit alarmist, but very interesting nonetheless!

You’re goddamn right! And make sure you enjoy that walk!!

That looks divine!! What kinda pan sauce did you make, cause I know you didn’t throw out that fond!!?

What do you mean by TUI? Terminal User Interface? If so, inquirer is nice for CLI prompts to the user for input

Naw man, don’t even joke about that, hope it’s just a dark joke and that it doesn’t resonate with you too much. But if it does please know that it’s never the answer and there’s definitely a hotline or website you can reach out to for help!

Edit: just now realising this might not be a suicide joke, and my humour is just too dark, lol, still leaving the comment just in case

If you can game then Rocket League in slow-mo is an absolute banger

Only the best metro service I’ve ever seen, never been to Japan or Germany, but a number of other large cities.

I’m the last one to defend capitalism but, well, there is a slight difference of intentions. One doesn’t care about the general population and manipulates it, the other actively hates and seeks to perform genocide

Well, and serial killers…

Bonjour de France!

Glass Animals, hands down best concert I’ve been to! My GF wasn’t thrilled about going but by the end she was dancing like crazy. They’re much more impactful and energetic live than their recorded stuff would make you think!

What in the name of the scorched hell of Fallout’s wasteland is going on in this fridge?

I found the combat in the first to be more fun (played it three times on all difficulties) but opinions probably differ and they both miss the huuge set pieces from the old games. Still both very good games!

Dan Carlin had an interesting podcast episode of Hardcore History on this/related subject about the history of child rearing and the unfortunate conditions that were super common prior to the modern day which might interest you.

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2. Who hurt you?
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Right, thank you! Yeah mainly needed help on the YT backstory and the chemistry, the premise of the joke I got, I could have been clearer. Anywho, grade A content my dude(ette)!